‘I was certain he would want me’: Entitled Woman Loses Entire Friend Group After Getting Rejected by a Guy

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Korin Arbel
Aug 3, 2023 5:00 PM EDT

Here's the latest hot take. We're all well aware that relationships can be rough, even more so when you're trying to transition from the best friends to lovers situation. However, in this Reddit story, we can see that wasn't the specific struggle, even quite the opposite. If the saying goes that beauty and love conquer all, it did not stick in this case. Without giving away too much of the story, we have a relatively rare situation where a girl is rejected by one of her closest friends but not because of what you may think, it is more due to their differing distinctive personalities.

The woman takes her story to Reddit in search of validation and boy did these Redditors have what to say! She receives the opposite reaction from what she was expecting with a lot of aggravation and not so much heart. If you're skeptical, take a look at the story and see for yourself! 

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    Font - r/AITAH . Posted by u/IndividualBalance315 12 hours ago AITAH for my response after a guy rejected me? Advice Needed
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    Font - This guy (23M) joined my (22F) friend group around six months ago. I instantly felt attracted to him as he's a very handsome guy and sweet. At the start we got along well and even spent some time without others. I was certain that we'd start dating soon.
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    Font - However after a while we began having disagreements. He would accuse me of having a bad attitude, not being nice to people and mistreating others in general (all false).
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    Font - Fast forward to a couple of days ago. He hadn't asked me out yet so I asked him when he would do that. This is the text he sent me:
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    Font - "Listen, you're beautiful and my type. I thought you were stunning from the moment we met. But a pretty face means nothing when a girl behaves the way you do. Personality is important to me and yours is....horrible.
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    Font - You treat people like sh t and even made [name] cry over something petty. I'm not even sure if you notice that everyone constantly walks on eggshells around you.
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    Font - So no, I decided not to ask you out. I'm physically attracted to you but you're not the only attractive girl in the world"
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    Font - I found this text really, really hurtful and shocking. After I read it I went over to his place and we started arguing. I ended up crying and throwing some stuff around. At the end there were some broken plates and glasses.
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    Font - After this incident my entire friend circle labelled me crazy and unhinged (which I'm not). Am I really the as hole here after that awful text?
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    Font - Jaxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 10 hr. ago "I was certain we'd be dating soon" already had me forming an opinion of OP. Sounds like someone isn't used to hearing no.
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    Font - boxing_coffee. 9 hr. ago. edited 9 hr. ago This. You can tell a lot about someone by how they respond to boundaries.
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    Font - B10kh3d2 9 hr. ago Why did you make one of your friends cry? If everyone has to walk on eggshells around you, and your first reaction is to breakstuff ugh wtf
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    Font - Fit-Purchase-2950 · 7 hr. ago She made sure to let everyone know how "beautiful" she is though.
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    Font - a_different_pov_85 - 9 hr. ago Not only yelling, but breaking HIS stuff. But she's not "unhinged" right? 4 48 Reply Share
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    Font - Particular-Court-619. 5 hr. ago The crazy thing is that we are only getting HER side of the story. This is the best, most self-serving version of the story to make her look good she could come up with, and it's still achingly clear she's TA.
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    Font - sennbat 9 hr. ago . If she's seeing for for the right treatment, sure. I'd wager she's not, though, since she refuses to acknowledge the actual problems, so how could she be seeing a therapist for them.
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    Font - Guy_In_TheChair 10 hr. ago F Unfortunately, therapy isn't going to help you, you are a narcissist, and therapy to deal with that pathology is extremely difficult. It requires a narcissist to accept things about themselves that their condition prevents them from acknowledging.
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    Rectangle - TarzanKitty 11 hr. ago YTA He was polite and constructive. He doesn't want to date you because you are unkind and behave badly. Your response was to behave more badly and vandalize his home.
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    Font - invisiblew830 · 11 hr. ago YTA. See a therapist, seriously. Reply Share 3.9k
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    Font - PLACE 恐 Aggravating_Serve_80 If this is how you act while seeking therapy, you need a new therapist. 10 hr. ago
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